It seems on the surface that body language has little relevance in a situation where your body is unseen, for example in an online meeting, regardless of whether or not you use video. However body control is very important. Your posture affects how you feel as well as how you sound. Here are some rules I follow:
Posture
Feet flat and supported
Body not twisted or stooping
Sit upright with a straight back
Do not cross ankles
Scanning
Scan for audience feedback around the clock face
Check for contact with an individual every 5 or 10 seconds
Never speak while looking at cards or notes
Read – Internalise – Speak
SHAPE = Slow + Hands + Audience + Posture + Eyes
Slow down - don’t rush, take the time to emphasise important content
Hands - keep your hands away from keyboard and mouse unless emphasising key points
Audience - keep your focus on them and their reaction to your presentation
Posture - Sit up straight or stand and don’t slouch or fidget
Eyes - forward, not down or backwards at the screen
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Invisible Body Language – I like that!
As a speaker, I know how important it is when in front of a group. Non-verbal communication trumps verbal every time when a physical audience sees you.
Thanks for pointing out the on-line effect, also.
Hmmmm – why is it that the ‘bleedin’ obvious’ often gets forgotten. Great post Phil. I’m guilty of a few of those things myself when delivering online sessions from my sofa! From now on, I shall remember my SHAPE!